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When I worked in a secular job I had the tendency of leaving before my shift was over. My shift was from 12-6 pm but I was under the impression that I could leave at 5:30 or 5:45 pm. Which was short of my assigned time to leave. One day my manager caught wind of what I was doing and …

I know this may sound a little cruel or harsh but the harsh reality is that Leadership is not emotional! In my years of leadership I have learned that there are people who don’t like you and there are people you don’t like. You can apply an emotional principle to people who you invite over to your house to fellowship …

There is a difference being called and chosen when it comes to ministry. First let me state that the calling I am referring to in this Blog is not the “called” that is mentioned in Matthew 22. That “called” is referring to those who God invites into a relationship with Him. The “called” I want to discuss is the “called” …

Before you start to come down on my thought process please hear me out. Yesterday I read a post that asked the question, “would you stay under a pastor that came out to his congregation that he was gay?”. This is not a new thing as this evangelical world has seen this happening in some churches across the country. As …

Tunnel Vision is the tendency to focus exclusively on a single or limited goal or point of view. It is defective sight in which objects cannot be properly seen if not close to the center of the field of view. I am amazed at how many of us can have tunnel vision when it comes to how we treat others …

Many of us have experienced being broken. We have experienced spiritual and emotional brokenness. It could be by a boyfriend/girlfriend, a spouse, a friend, a family member, a church member or enemy. Often times we are oblivious to the approach of our brokenness. It just jumps on us without warning and we are unaware and unprepared. In many cases we …

Friendship goes two ways. You can’t be a ONE-SIDED FRIEND! Some people only want friends so that they can have someone to do things for them or to side with them (even when they are wrong). Friendship is much more than a selfish notion and it also comes with self-sacrifice. That is why many people say that they have very …

I know this is a late post. I wasn’t going to write today because I needed rest but the Lord just laid this on my heart. I suffer from what many other people do and that is Type 2 Diabetes. Having this illness means I have to be conscious of what I eat or drink because the consequences of eating …

There are many times I am asked this question and it comes from people who have a concern about how my demeanor is or something they see may not be normal. People will ask you first, “are you ok?” Then after the response they will ask, “are you sure you are alright?” Often times the answer is no. But who, …

Often times in our lives we live in hypocrisy. We know what God’s word says but we twist it as to justify our own desires. We will name drop and say, “God told me to do this!” or “God blessed me with this!” Knowing totally that it wasn’t God who told you this but our own self desires. We get …